Can a Christian participate in Halloween?
Christianity vs. Halloween: Yes, there’s a dark side to Halloween. I choose to ignore it. There’s a dark side to anything when you look close enough at it. We live in a broken world, a sinful world, and as much as I would like to hide my face from it there is evil in this world. I have two options:
- I can remove my children from ever having to see the dark side of the world; hoping, instead, that they’ll naturally shy away from it when they’re grown. Maybe they will because they’ve stayed away from it their entire life? Maybe they’ll rebel at the chance of freedom? Who knows?
- I can guide them through life, allowing them to see the dark sides, but teaching them the Way and the Truth. When they’re grown the outcome will be the same as it would if I had sheltered them. They will either stay true to the course, only, I hope it would be because of knowledge and belief rather than fear of the unknown. Or they’ll rebel at the chance of freedom, deciding instead to take a different path.
Plus, Halloween is a fun holiday. Some of my best childhood memories are from planning my Halloween costume starting in August to seeing it to fulfillment on October 31st. Will I dress my children up in witch costumes or ghosts? No, I won’t and that’s because of my own personal belief. I will also discourage them from choosing costumes that are murderous, malicious looking, too sexy or showcase that evil that is present in this world. I will, however, encourage them to think of a fun costume, something that reflects that childhood innocence that is often lost at such an early age. That is how we’ll celebrate…oh and candy, lots and lots of candy!!
Do you celebrate? Why or why not?
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We are a devout family as well and I have thought about my kids celebrating Halloween. Like you, it was never because I had heard that our religion forbade it but because others have shown a disapproving eye. But I love Halloween and just like everything else in life you have to be able to guide your children in the right direction. Let them experience things but be there to show them the truth and how to live.
We do not. To me, the church and it’s people should be totally separate from the world in every way possible. Living IN the world and not OF it. We try very hard for every holiday to put an emphasis on God. The world does an excellent job of bombarding our kids with garbage…..we have to be separate from that. We celebrate the Fall Season with pumpkins, hayrides, the harvest and just he pure beauty that takes place in our season at this time but no costumes or anything scary. I think one of the biggest ways our church and it’s people have failed is trying to immolate Pagan Holidays but with a Christian twist…..not biblical at all.
Thanks for your response! I totally see where you’re coming from and really appreciate your opinion. There are some things I’d rather separate myself from the world that I feel would make more of an impact than abstaining from a holiday or a holiday tradition.
Halloween(All Hallows Eve/All Saints Eve) actually started out as a Christian (in the general term)Holiday to remember the dead, including saints (hallows), martyrs, and all the faithful departed believers.We too celebrate it w/o giving into the harshness of the version many celebrate today. I don’t think there is a wrong or right, just a personal preference.
Thanks Tracy!
I agree with your article, the church I grew up in had costume parties and handed out candy, trunk or treat style. You can bring the light of Jesus into everything, we put tracts in our candy bags to hand out along with treats! Thanks for sharing!
My husband’s family never celebrated Halloween, but I loved Halloween as a child! When we have children, I think we will have to find a compromise, and I love the thoughtful way your family has gone about it.
This is a controversial topic so good for you to write a post on it! I’m also Christian but choose to participate in Halloween, with similar stipulations as you. If we were attending a church that had an actual fun alternative for kids on Halloween night, we’d consider that too, but I actually like how you get to meet your neighbours and go door to door trick or treating. Because in this day and age, when else can you randomly knock on your neighbours’ doors and do something that involves your whole community? As my kids get older though we will be having conversations with them about why we refrain from certain practices or costumes during Halloween though.
That’s a great point.